Matt E. fish lover wrote:
Okay so today i walkd in my room and i just noticed my oscar is to small for the tank but when i bout it at the pet store they said it would be okay in a 50 even with three t four other fish!! they said for every inch a fish grows it needs one gallon so i figured 14 inch oscar =14 gallons plus my three other fish i was like o SCORE but then after i got him maybe about four inches which was a few months after i got him i did reacherch and boy was i shoked! i knew at that moment i needed to upgrade so i tried telling my mom i need at least a 55+ tank! she was like HELL NO so the best i could get wasa 50 gallon and that was after i grew to love my fish

but i know the day i graduate HS im going to get the bigest tank that fits in my basement its not that i dont care for my fish its just my PARENTS trust me cause i spent every pennny i owned and worked for into my current tank so obiosly i love them but i feel like a bad owner cause i cant provide them with the big tank that they require

but even still my lfs ppl tell me one inch one gallon
Thats why you need to not get your primary advice from your LFS pple. They are trying to
sell things...keep that in mind. They also would probably tell you to buy stress zyme, ph up/down, water clarifier. salt, bio-zyme, carbon, etc. etc. Basically a lot of stuff you probably don't even need, and could actually be harmful.
This is not to say there aren't good, knowledgeable pple working at pet stores, it's just that it's more advisable to ask pple who don't have any other motivation than love for the hobby and want to help others.
That being said, it's not your fault. Thing is, I think basically you need to make a tough decision for the good of your fish. You might have to either give your other fish up or your oscar. What kind of fish are in there, anyways?
Keeping the oscar in a 50 by itself isn't necessarily advisable, but I suppose you could do it and it would survive with careful maintenance. Again, though. It's not recommended.
Any other fish in there as well..no. If your other fish are small and will remain small I would have to say rehome the oscar. He's probably not going to make it in that tank with other fish, and you're probably going to lose more than one.
Keep in mind when a tank says 50 gallons it's not even
that, you have to factor in the water displacement from rocks, substrate, other items...as well as the fact that 99% of the time the tank isn't filled to maximum capacity or it's be spilling over the hood. A 50 is probably closer to 47...if not
less.
It's hard to do, trust me, I know...I had to rehome my pleco that I had for quite a while, and I didn't realize how attached I became to him, but you have to get past that and look at whats best for the
fish, and realizing caring about them means knowing when to let them go so they can be healthy and happy.
Make sure you are
reading all of the articles on the sight that OFL prepared carefully and thoroughly. All the info you need to get a good start is there, and most of the stuff you're experiencing now could have been addressed beforehand by reading them. Maybe you did, but it seems like
alot of the things you are asking are answered there.
For me, so as not to make you think you're the only one who didn't know or followed bad advice or anything-- I started out with 3 oscars in a 20 gallon. I had no real info about oscar keeping. I just assumed they were fish and you plonk them in and buy a small filter and there you go. Well, obviously I had a lot to learn. I lost 2 of them (one from poor water, the other from jumping from a hoodless tank), and decided to make a commitment to the one that survived that I was going to do things right by him...and it's been very satisfying. But it took endless hours of careful research and a lot of mistakes, to be honest. Even now I feel like I'm just scratching the surface in truly understanding all the things that go on in a healthy aquarium.
I would leave you with the advice that if you do not have the means to DO right by yours: let him go, wait for the time you have the resources, and do it right with all the experience and knowledge you've learned.