welcome to Oscarfishlover, I am sorry that you have had to come to us under these circumstances. Okay, you've mentioned your fish having balance issues where the nose points down and the tail up. This is actually called head standing. now she is lying flat on the bottom of the tank. I'm afraid this could possibly be a swim bladder problem, the symptoms certainly point to that anyway. I can't think of any other reason why your fish will be behaving like this, I've checked my health book and your description fits the bill.
Normally, these conditions are terminal. However, if you have got quarantine tank, you could try transferring the fish into it and try what is called heat treatment. Heat treatment can be used on conditions such as ick. You want to raise the temperature to around 30°C, fish will actually be okay higher than that but just a little careful. The warmer the water, the more resistance the fish is against infections. Leave it like that for around 2 days and observe the fish. Please don't raise the water anymore than 1°C an hour
If that doesn't work, there are medications that can treat internal organs. One is called Trimethoprim. This is just the name, you should try and get hold of commercially available preparations such as Drylin Eusaprim & borgal solution. I would strongly advise you to seek help from a vet, tell them what is happening, mention these medications and see what he says. I have got to be honest with you, your fish does sound rather ill, where I would really hope it will recover, I very much doubt it will, but i hope I'm proved wrong. But you could try this treatment and see what happens. But please before you do anything based on my instructions, seek a professional opinion first