Hi and welcome to the forum! You've come to the right place for helpful advice and answers.
Penn is 100% correct, you need to do the following:
Get your 55 down to just ONE Oscar, because one Oscar alone requires a tank of 55 or larger, with no tankmates.
Buy a large canister filter (I can recommend the New Marineland C-360 which is currently on good sale at
www.petmountain.com
) I happen to also like bio wheel filters as good supplemental filtration but in any event you need a filter rated for at least 250-300 GPH at bare minimum and
I would go higher still. Buy the biggest you can afford. (That C-360 would be good on a 55)
Get yourself a good liquid reagent master test kit and try to provide us with readings for PH, Ammonia, Nitrites and Nitrates too. (Clear water
is not a reliable indicator that the water parameters are safe for fish.)
Putting too many "keeper" fish in (especially fast growing potentially big messy fish)after just two weeks would have really stressed it out and I would
bet strongly you don't have a completely cycled tank there, which the water tests will confirm. Spikes in ammonia or nitrites alone will soon become a life threatening condition, never mind the potential growth overcrowding. Pulling and completely washing your gravel was not good as that probably destroyed the little good bacteria that was beginning to grow in the gravel bed. Even with starter feeder fish, your tank would require at least 4-5 weeks
most likely to cycle, not just the 2 weeks you allowed.
First things first, get your fish load down to just one fish, return the others to the store etc. This all may not be what you were hoping to hear, but it's the plain simple truth and your fish could be at great risk. If you don't have a master test kit, buy one and get some valid readings. Don't rely on the LFS to give you accurate readings as you need to be able to do your own testing and to understand the results too.
What kind of filter do you have right now? (If you have a hang on "bio wheel" filter, by all means KEEP IT and add a big canister filter to supplement your filtration. If the hang on is not a bio wheel type, replace it when you can with better filtration starting with a big canister and adding a bio wheel type later as a supplement)
Lastly,
don't feed your Oscars "feeder fish" at all, unless you bred and raised the feeders yourself and have had the feeders quarantined for several weeks to be sure they are disease and parasite free. Buying feeders from your LFS (local fish store) is like playing russian roulette with 4 bullets in a gun that holds six. (What those feeder fish could have or be infected with, you can't see)
We've all made mistakes, myself included and I dare say I am not done yet..