It seems to be a very common trend with Oscars, not eating. The first thing to do is to make sure the water is okay. Oscars/any fish will stop eating if the water is in a bad state. How long has the Oscar been refusing food for? What have you been feeling it? Sometimes if they eat the same thing all the time and then you change foods, they will refuse. When Oscars spawn, they stopped eating, sometimes two days before eggs arrive. Is the Oscar behaving normally or is it sitting on the bottom of the tank motionless? If it is acting normally, then I wouldn't think that it is ill, or not very ill. If you try giving it live food to try and stimulate it into feeding? Sometimes live shrimp can work. Other than that it's very difficult to really say what causes them to do it. I had been there are loads of times and my Oscars and so have many other people. It's one of those things they do occasionally and since fish are so difficult to diagnose, it tends to be one of those questions that gets us to lock. Sorry I can't be much more help.