Hey Brain, welcome to OFL!
My first thought when reading that was "typical", lol. Not knowing anything else yet about your tank I'd suspect this to be just normal Oscar behaviour. Oscars are known to rip plants apart and move things around and dig, some more, some less. And being cichlids, they are also territorial. At that size/age it's kinda comparable with human puberty

Often they get a bit calmer again once matured.
What size is your tank? If the space allows, you could try to create a bit of a structure that might help with establishing territories or just for the Jack Dempsey to get outta the eyes of the Oscar at times. JD's are no angels neither from what I've heard, so things might change again. Just make sure none of the fish gets really injured or stressed too much.