found on another local fourm a discussion bout how to sex oscars, now i thought this was impossable uinless you see and oscar lay eggs or they are sighted throught the mouth???? but found this thing a dude was sayn about "venting" i have cut and paste this in from the other site letme know what you think.
QUOTE" There are signs other than venting, but they can be ineffective if you have oscars from different sources. Venting is foolproof and not too hard at all. It does pay to vent twice, on different days as sometimes it will be a day and night difference, other times it may be confusing if you don't know what you're looking at.
The vent on the male should be slightly larger than the anus, the female's vent is noticeably bigger. Sometimes the males vent seems enlarged and the female's vent seem smaller than you would expect, so just take a mental picture when you have a look and compare them again the next day. Once you've successfully sexed oscars you will find it much easier the next time. UN_QUOTE"
cheers.
skatkea.