I don't know too much about oscars and breeding and I'm sure I dont have to worry about it again but I had introduced a new oscar to my tank a few weeks ago that I had to return the next day because I suspected him of getting HITH, but while he was in there he really wasn't shy at all, he was an albino tiger and he was bumping my lemon albino a lot, and then my lemon (who's name is Bubba) started doing it back and he's not aggressive at all. It amused me so I watched for awhile while they bumped eachother and rubbed around and then the tiger started trying to grab Bubbas mouth and pull on him, I remember reading that they do this before they mate...is that what was about to happen? And one more question, does a male or female initiate it or is it just whoever feels like it?