I have just lost my O and am cycling again before adding another, due to possibly hurting my baby during
the cycle

anyway I see on youtube that many people touch and stroke their O's while feeding or just to
do it on film! Is this ok? or is it something to not do? it would seem that human hands could hold bacteria
that fish would not usually come in contact with, and lead to sickness or even death. I have grown fond of the Oscar
fish and would not want to do anything stupid the next time around. since the departure of my O, I am worried
about many things, feeding to much, contact with my hands, algae, crickets!! which was the last thing my baby came in
contact with? there are so many things that can go wrong. How do you keepers keep all things right and healthy??
are there any secrets that you can share, I have learned how to keep my chemicals in check and balanced. but I feel I need
more info to help me keep a O successfully and happy.
feel free to brow beat me, anything to help the next time I jump in.
Zoo