Thomas112393 wrote:
do you think i could put play ground sand in their tank or would gravel be better

x2 with Nicki... personal choice
I started with sand (sump filter though) and had lot of issues with sand in my filter material. It was a "challenge" to clean too. You don't want to suck up the sand but you need to clean it. You have to rinse the heck out of it and when you first put it in the tank, it still makes it cloudy. It can take a few days for it to settle. Mine eventually started to turn black underneath and I didn't like the look of it. I'm sure that had to do with bacteria/bioload stuff. I have since gone back to gravel. You just can't syphon sand like you can gravel. My Oscar likes to move the rocks around too... gives him something to do!! In the sand, he just made deep craters with his tail... I could see the glass bottom in some spots!