could you possibly post a photo of your setup? The best thing to use is a silicone sealant. Okay, it may not be quite as strong as some other adhesives, but its flexible which is good because the pipes may get moved slightly occasionally. And more importantly, is very water proof which is very important when you are dealing with a lot of pipework. Have you got chambers inside the tank that the water flows into and then goes out a hole in the bottom of the tank? If so, we just put a liberal amounts of silicon sealant and no leak occurred.