would a frontosa be ok with my oscar or would he be to shy and not competitive enough

Frontosa's are African cichlids and therefore should be kept with their own. They should also be kept in an aquarium that resembles their native home. Personally, I wouldn't keep them with your Oscars, choose something other than African fish. There are loads of South American fish that will be perfect.

ok thankyou very much im still on the hunt to find something unique and odd no luck yet any sugestions on not seen very often exotics

I have tried to mixed a frontosa to my oscar. Eventually, my oscar gotten the frontosa , maybe due to size difference, (1.5 inches frontosa was introduced at the tank with 7 inches oscar.