Cordawg wrote:
I think your right GUSS my Red Oscar has a littel thing maybe 3mm long coming from is rearend lol could that be his member? its no poo lol
If it is there all time, I think you may be mistaking it with part of its fin. I have noticed this before and on a couple of occasions, had been a doubletake because I thought it was the male sexual organ. If it is indeed the male sexual organ, it won't be out all time. When they are lip locking and going through behaviour like that, that is the sort of time that you may see it. I suppose it's the equivalent of foreplay and having a hard on

( did I just say that?) When they finish, and they are not really doing anything in the tank, it will disappear.
Where do you trade it in for another Oscar really depends on their behaviour and if they are causing each other injuries. Personally, I wouldn't encourage them to spawn. It's nice when it happens, but there's always a worry over ending up with hundreds of babies that you can't do anything with.