Hi Newbie Here

I brought a used 75 gal tank for my oscar Nemo. I wanted something different looking so I used playsand instead of gravel, because as we all know oscars are messy. Well, to make a long story short my tank is cloudy. Before anyone ask why did I use playsand at all? I did my homework first and every source said it was ok to use{playsand} just rinse it very well. My husband trying to suprise me for X-mas bought 50 lbs of playsand and did not rinse it first; so I came home to a cloudy mess :angry: . I drained the tank and used my gravel cleaner and later a garden hose to get the sand out and into a bucket I rinsed and rinsed and rinsed the sand. I rinsed the tank as well

after thought Should I have rised the filter too? the water was nice and clear so I put the sand back in the tank and still the water was clear. I add the usual stuff: water conditioner, anti-stress, and aquaium salt. (My Nemo just got over a case of pop-eye 2 months ago) (my fault the other tank was too small and I was out of town for a month and relied on some one else to do work

) Then I went to pet smart and brought some nice fake looking coral; I rinsed them off good and put them in the tank I then checked the water temp and it was still fine so I then introduced Nemo to his new home with some feeder fish after Nemo's house party was over the water was still clear and I went to bed. I woke up about 4a.m. x-mas eve to wrap gifts and the tank was a cloudy h8ll hole As soon a day light hit I called psmart and took a water sample. The lady told me my water did not have a P.H. number

and I needed to do a 25% water change and add some p.h. up and water conditioner. I did a 50% for good measure and the water looks even worst than before I started right now it looks like a early morning fog thick as pea soup

Guys I'm afraid my Nemo will die if I do not do something. I thought about putting him back in his old tank It was nice and clean; water was so clear looked like he was swimming in mid-air but that tank has since been drained of water however the gravel is still in that tank and it was only 30 gallons. I have had Nemo for over a year now I can not bare to lose him or put him back in that little tank. plz Help me I'm at a lost.

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enviromental stats:
playsand bottom 50lbs
4 fake corals
Tank :75 gallon us with canopy
Lighting: white floresence(sp)
Water: Fresh
Temp: 80 degrees f
Filter system: penguin bio-wheel 350 Changed pads 12/24/07
Heater: whisper calentador
Food: Oscar pellets not given since 12/21/07 feeder fish ate about 25
update Nemo top fin is fluttering and his gill are stretch out is he choaking to death?