Nicki--Sue wrote:
My female JD is very shy, and she hides too!

NOOO dont put that evil on me! hes a boy he has too be
just my luck, every fish i've owned has been a girl haha (guess the ladies love me

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well i like him/
her and will love it regardless, and ill have to keep you guys updated on how jacko ages
as for your smaller JD, from all that i've read on this site there are quite a few factors that may contribute negatively to your fishes growth; water quality, tank size, how much you feed them, how dominant they are in the tank and much more im sure.
To top that no fish is the same and grow at different rates, and apperantly our EBJDs can tend to be slower growin fish anyhow
best of luck, you should post pics of your little guy