Meghan I have an EBJD. My lfs had them on sale for $50 but they weren't selling. So once they dropped to $25 a fish, I bought one.
Yes they take a
loooong time to grow, and do prefer to hide out amongst the plants and things, but my little guy has a ton of personality. (Not as much as an Oscar no, but he's definitely his own fish. lol) I bought him and my Lemon Oscar at the same time, and they were almost the same size. The O is now a good 6" long and the EBJD is pushing 3.5". That was in September of last year. (They're friends though.) The only thing that he picks on is a 5" Pictus Cat, but I'm pretty sure the feeling is mutual in that department.
The "electric blue" aspect of them is a natural color variant, but I think that the fish are bred and inbred so much, that they've become a tad "dainty" if you would. I've heard stories of the magic 3" mark, and how once they reach that size a lot of them die. I was worried that mine wasn't getting enough food, so I bought him sinking pellets. He eats like a horse now!
I'm on my way to take my kid to the Dr., but I'll try and get an updated pic of Sheridan when I get back.