My 12 year old has been in several tanks I admit some were possibly too small for him; he has even been in 3seperate houses (even given up to my mother-in-law) but I love him so much that I wanted him back and so I made sure that when I got my O's tank he was coming home. I brought him at the same time as my dora and they are still very close even though they were apart for nearly a year. I thought he was a common but everyone goes on about how big they get and he never has although hes a great character.
Thanks for info guys, but may have to change pleco's name if he is a she but that explains alot shes the smallest in the tank but no means a push over she is a little miss bossy boots.