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Okay, the first thing you must do is test your water for ammonia, nitrite, nitrates and pH. Without knowing what condition your water is then, it really is very difficult to advise you any further.
Hopefully you have got some test kits, we always recommend liquid test kits. I favour aquarium pharmaceuticals, although there are many other makes of test kit on the market. If you haven't got any test kits, I would recommend a 50% water change making sure that you use a water conditioner.
Could you also tell us how big your tank is, what kind of filtration you have got, and how you have been going about tank maintenance i.e. water changes, filtration cleaning etc.
Unfortunately it doesn't sound good, your Oscar is obviously breathing heavily for some reason, this could be stress due to illness, or maybe toxins in the water that is stressing it out. One last thing, is your tank well oxygenated? In other words, is the water coming in from the filtration system causing disturbance on top of the water?