Okay, first thing first. You need to carry out a water test. hole in the head disease is often associated with poor water conditions. You need to test for ammonia, nitrite, nitrates and pH. There isn't any point in starting any kind of medication until we know your water is okay. Also, what type of food to feed your Oscar? You actually don't need to feed your Oscar that much, every other day would suffice. Doing this will encourage them to eat. If you feed them every day then there's more chance they will go off their food. This is from experience. You should also vary in their diet as well, they often get bored of one food.
If possible, can you post some photographs so we can see the extent of the disease, if indeed it is this disease. Early stages of this disease can often be cleared up just by increasing tank maintenance.
I would also like you to look at your fish carefully and tell me whether or not it is breathing heavily i.e. opening and closing its mouth rapidly