OK Hun, here we go....
You need a 100 gallon tank for 2 Oscars. 3 is a bad number because as you are learning, two will gang up on the 3rd... And the goldfish ( who requires completely different water) has to go...
You have too many fish in a small tank, not enough filtration, and you need HUGE frequent water changes.
So in short, find a big tank NOW, add a big canister filter, and rehome one Oscar, and the goldfish. You also need to do about 30% water changes with gravel vacuuming several times a week. This will also help with the HITH!
Can you please post water readings for Ammonia, Nitrite, Nitrate, and PH.